Gender Counseling

So I half came out to my mom as FtM on an impulse decision last Thursday.... Shes accepting but she thinks its come out of nowhere, for me it hasnt but i understand where shes coming from. I had one of those hellish ultra femme phases and even thought its been two years it still comes up. I told my mom i was confused and scared ( because i am ) but for the most part im pretty sure im trans. My dad doesnt want me to make any drastic decisions as a 15 year old, which once again, I completely understand but its still really hard. I told my mom i wanted to go into counseling so they can diagnose me with gender dysphoria but my parents are ignoring it. my dad hasnt said a single word to me about it. My dad is extremely accepting but i know he loves having a daughter. My dead name is super unique and I know hes just upset im not his little girl. Im thinking of having a chat with them tomorrow but im not sure.