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anyways being serious for once in my life 
ii really want to come out?
my parents r accepting even if they dont get it (sisters lesbo n out)
so it shouldn't be that hard to come out but i jus?
im pretty sure i have social anxeity so i just dont know how i could come out,,,
should i just text my mom it one day? thats the only think i can think to do

- wormboy, vincent

Re: hhhhh

it's okay if you're not sure if you wanna come out! if it's safe to, then you have any time to come out. i would recommend ripping the bandaid off now so it's not so bad later. we all support you though!! <3

Re: hhhhh

I came out to my mom in the car, my dad over text. it was completely spontaneous. I say you should take advantage of accepting parents and come out(whenever you’re ready of course). I recommend over text, since you don’t have to be face to face, you can type it out and read it over, make edits, save it for later.

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sjsjsk i don't think i'dbe able yo type more than just like two words, im not good at atlkoing to thwm or nyone other than my sister in my faily so its kinda jus??? i dont know what i'd say but i just feel siper stressde n o t being out

- wormboy, vincent

Re: hhhhh

Coming out is hard. I sent an email to my parents, but I basically have to come out again if I want to come out at school, and I keep putting that off. If you come out via email though, be prepared to talk about it in person to further explain yourself, at least that's what happened with me.

Re: hhhhh

sdkasd i know ill  have to talk in person eventually but im jus too scared too?? i dont know its scary

- wormboy, vincent

Re: hhhhh

Yeah it is. That's basically the reason I keep putting off telling my parents I want to come out at school.

Re: hhhhh

i; probably jus text my mom osmething short while shes asleep

- wormboy, vincent

Re: hhhhh

Coming out is all about situation, not only safety of the situation but when is best to do it. Gathering the family and making it a big deal will cause more anxiety than you need in what is a big step in your life. Personally, came out to my mam over the bath while she was washing out my hair dye, my dad not at all really he just knows I’m gay, same with my siblings. Secondary was odd because I only needed to tell my friends then within the day the whole school knew, but with collage it was offhand jokes and only the people I’m around the most tend to know. Coming out is a process that you’ll do for the rest of your life so keep it casual; people who make it a big deal aren’t people you want to be around

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sksk thats true,, i never planned to gather everyone thankfully but im horrible with timing and knowing when things are right to say, thats why i jus wanna text it to my mom randomly and have her tell the rest of my family if she wants too. ^^ thanl you for the input 

- wormboy, vincent